I LOVE this ring! It is big, but flat, so it doesn't stand out where you feel like you have some huge rock on your hand... it is very European and chic, and I love the little gems on the side to give it a different look than just plain black and silver. I wear it with denim, or with a black skirt w/ blouse and it goes with all looks. Thanks for a great ring. I had purchased another ring, too, but had to return that one.