I just received my pendant today and although I think it is beautiful, I am on the fence because I wish I had ordered the bracelet instead. If I keep this, I think I will take it to a jeweler and see if it can be changed into a pin because I will get tons of wear out of it then. I don't know if R.J. offered a pin and I missed out on the bracelet; it is beautiful though...just wish it were a pin!